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Re: Child Custody Lawyer [Re: James] #1769512
06/24/16 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted By: James
Originally Posted By: Shocktop
Originally Posted By: doekiller
Run for state legislator and change the law since you think it isn't fair to hard working fellas like you.


This is about your only option, or else keep taking it up the azz.
Buddy of my sho did! His ex was ordered to pay him, she never paid a dime now she and her new husbands both on disability. And now he's paying that cheating biotch smh. (And He had the best attorney money could buy in mobile)
I got a buddy that has custody of his 2 kids. His ex wife was ordered to pay CS she's never paid a dime and the court won't even have her locked up, but if it was a man his ass would be sitting behind bars. Like I said judges are some of the crooked sob alive


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Re: Child Custody Lawyer [Re: Deerslyer86] #1769513
06/24/16 04:18 PM
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Originally Posted By: Deerslyer86

Originally Posted By: TexasHuntress
Oh, good grief!

If the guy making $10/hour paying child support for one child with an ex-wife who does not work is going to pay the same percent of his income as the guy making $40/hour paying child support for one child with an ex-wife who does not work.

Why is that unfair?

And, no, I do not receive child support. I married a man who has paid child support, though, and never fussed about it because it was the right thing to do (even though we felt like it was, many times, misappropriated).
it's very unfair. Like I said their should be cap on CS. My kid is no better nor does his raising cost more than the man child who's father makes $10 an hour. If a woman is gonna bitch about how CS isn't enough then she should let the father raise him and I'm sure the man won't ask for a dime.


Surely you don't think tiger woods (for example) should owe the same as a $10/hr guy? Do you?

Re: Child Custody Lawyer [Re: jbc] #1769515
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Originally Posted By: jbc
Originally Posted By: Deerslyer86

Originally Posted By: TexasHuntress
Oh, good grief!

If the guy making $10/hour paying child support for one child with an ex-wife who does not work is going to pay the same percent of his income as the guy making $40/hour paying child support for one child with an ex-wife who does not work.

Why is that unfair?

And, no, I do not receive child support. I married a man who has paid child support, though, and never fussed about it because it was the right thing to do (even though we felt like it was, many times, misappropriated).
it's very unfair. Like I said their should be cap on CS. My kid is no better nor does his raising cost more than the man child who's father makes $10 an hour. If a woman is gonna bitch about how CS isn't enough then she should let the father raise him and I'm sure the man won't ask for a dime.


Surely you don't think tiger woods (for example) should owe the same as a $10/hr guy? Do you?
yes I do when it comes to CS. Why should he have to pay more than the man making $10 an hour


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Re: Child Custody Lawyer [Re: Deerslyer86] #1769519
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Just go find you a rich chick and be done with it, damn.

Re: Child Custody Lawyer [Re: Deerslyer86] #1769522
06/24/16 04:21 PM
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Originally Posted By: Deerslyer86

Originally Posted By: James
Originally Posted By: Shocktop
Originally Posted By: doekiller
Run for state legislator and change the law since you think it isn't fair to hard working fellas like you.


This is about your only option, or else keep taking it up the azz.
Buddy of my sho did! His ex was ordered to pay him, she never paid a dime now she and her new husbands both on disability. And now he's paying that cheating biotch smh. (And He had the best attorney money could buy in mobile)
I got a buddy that has custody of his 2 kids. His ex wife was ordered to pay CS she's never paid a dime and the court won't even have her locked up, but if it was a man his ass would be sitting behind bars. Like I said judges are some of the crooked sob alive


Judges are terrible. Who the heck gave them that job?


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Re: Child Custody Lawyer [Re: Deerslyer86] #1769524
06/24/16 04:22 PM
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Originally Posted By: Deerslyer86

Originally Posted By: jbc
Originally Posted By: Deerslyer86

Originally Posted By: TexasHuntress
Oh, good grief!

If the guy making $10/hour paying child support for one child with an ex-wife who does not work is going to pay the same percent of his income as the guy making $40/hour paying child support for one child with an ex-wife who does not work.

Why is that unfair?

And, no, I do not receive child support. I married a man who has paid child support, though, and never fussed about it because it was the right thing to do (even though we felt like it was, many times, misappropriated).
it's very unfair. Like I said their should be cap on CS. My kid is no better nor does his raising cost more than the man child who's father makes $10 an hour. If a woman is gonna bitch about how CS isn't enough then she should let the father raise him and I'm sure the man won't ask for a dime.


Surely you don't think tiger woods (for example) should owe the same as a $10/hr guy? Do you?
yes I do when it comes to CS. Why should he have to pay more than the man making $10 an hour


Because the child deserves it. He created the child. This doesn't seem difficult to me

Re: Child Custody Lawyer [Re: Deerslyer86] #1769528
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Re: Child Custody Lawyer [Re: jbc] #1769533
06/24/16 04:29 PM
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Originally Posted By: jbc
Originally Posted By: Deerslyer86

Originally Posted By: jbc
Originally Posted By: Deerslyer86

Originally Posted By: TexasHuntress
Oh, good grief!

If the guy making $10/hour paying child support for one child with an ex-wife who does not work is going to pay the same percent of his income as the guy making $40/hour paying child support for one child with an ex-wife who does not work.

Why is that unfair?

And, no, I do not receive child support. I married a man who has paid child support, though, and never fussed about it because it was the right thing to do (even though we felt like it was, many times, misappropriated).
it's very unfair. Like I said their should be cap on CS. My kid is no better nor does his raising cost more than the man child who's father makes $10 an hour. If a woman is gonna bitch about how CS isn't enough then she should let the father raise him and I'm sure the man won't ask for a dime.


Surely you don't think tiger woods (for example) should owe the same as a $10/hr guy? Do you?
yes I do when it comes to CS. Why should he have to pay more than the man making $10 an hour


Because the child deserves it. He created the child. This doesn't seem difficult to me
hmmmmm easy for a person to say that has never been in this situation before. So your comment is irrelevant


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Re: Child Custody Lawyer [Re: Deerslyer86] #1769535
06/24/16 04:33 PM
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Originally Posted By: Deerslyer86

Originally Posted By: jbc
Originally Posted By: Deerslyer86

Originally Posted By: jbc
Originally Posted By: Deerslyer86

Originally Posted By: TexasHuntress
Oh, good grief!

If the guy making $10/hour paying child support for one child with an ex-wife who does not work is going to pay the same percent of his income as the guy making $40/hour paying child support for one child with an ex-wife who does not work.

Why is that unfair?

And, no, I do not receive child support. I married a man who has paid child support, though, and never fussed about it because it was the right thing to do (even though we felt like it was, many times, misappropriated).
it's very unfair. Like I said their should be cap on CS. My kid is no better nor does his raising cost more than the man child who's father makes $10 an hour. If a woman is gonna bitch about how CS isn't enough then she should let the father raise him and I'm sure the man won't ask for a dime.


Surely you don't think tiger woods (for example) should owe the same as a $10/hr guy? Do you?
yes I do when it comes to CS. Why should he have to pay more than the man making $10 an hour


Because the child deserves it. He created the child. This doesn't seem difficult to me
hmmmmm easy for a person to say that has never been in this situation before. So your comment is irrelevant


I have a child. If for some reason my wife and I split up I think that my daughter should 100% have the right to live the quality of life as if we hadn't divorced. (And I would want her to). I don't see how my opinion is irrelevant just because you disagree with it

Re: Child Custody Lawyer [Re: Deerslyer86] #1769536
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If any of you in the legal world, can't admit there's plenty of abuse in the civil system, you're blinded by your bias. I'm not saying all of it, but many judges, lawyers, custodial parents, and non custodial parents abuse it.

I've seen it with my own eyes, a judge in Jefferson county making deals with a lawyer whose in his hunting club. A deadbeat mother being awarded custody because she's a woman, a judge cutting visitation because he's pissed off at the non custodial parent for appealing him previously. A drug addict being awarded enough child support to fund her pos ways, and getting custody regardless of drug offenses on her record.

Non custodial parents abuse it too, but they have wage garnishment and jail time waiting if they don't toe the line. At least, if they're male, they do.

I don't know that there is any way to ever fix the corruption, but there is no denying it is there.

Re: Child Custody Lawyer [Re: Deerslyer86] #1769550
06/24/16 04:47 PM
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Seems like someone wanting to get out of paying the standard child support would also want to get out of paying standard taxes. Might have put the cart before the horse here. Should have cheated on your taxes.
Ps just funning, I'm on your side. Child support sux. I had to pay it for 19 years. Baby's gotta eat though.

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Re: Child Custody Lawyer [Re: Deerslyer86] #1769555
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Originally Posted By: Deerslyer86

Originally Posted By: jbc
Originally Posted By: Deerslyer86

Originally Posted By: TexasHuntress
Oh, good grief!

If the guy making $10/hour paying child support for one child with an ex-wife who does not work is going to pay the same percent of his income as the guy making $40/hour paying child support for one child with an ex-wife who does not work.

Why is that unfair?

And, no, I do not receive child support. I married a man who has paid child support, though, and never fussed about it because it was the right thing to do (even though we felt like it was, many times, misappropriated).
it's very unfair. Like I said their should be cap on CS. My kid is no better nor does his raising cost more than the man child who's father makes $10 an hour. If a woman is gonna bitch about how CS isn't enough then she should let the father raise him and I'm sure the man won't ask for a dime.


Surely you don't think tiger woods (for example) should owe the same as a $10/hr guy? Do you?
yes I do when it comes to CS. Why should he have to pay more than the man making $10 an hour


Dude what are you talking about. I don't doubt the courts are biased toward women. But i think the idea is to "make the kids whole best as possible". Rich people spend more on their kids. Poor people spend less. The idea is to keep the money the kids are receiving the same amount of money had their parents not divorced. So, if you and the missus did not get divorced, presumably you would have steadily increased the amount you spent on your kids through the years as your income increased. Thus, the courts are trying to replicate this increased benefit to the kids as you steadily improve your lot in life.

Re: Child Custody Lawyer [Re: Deerslyer86] #1769565
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The idea of a non-working custodial parent floors me.



Re: Child Custody Lawyer [Re: Deerslyer86] #1769578
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I like the idea of two parents coming to an agreement on custody and support without getting the suits and judges involved. Too bad it can't work that way all the time. I believe we should all support our kids, no matter the situation. But it does suck to have a judge say you have to pay x amount each month, regardless of the amount or what its for.

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The idea of a non-working custodial parent floors me.


Yep,

Something else that is flooring is when a reversal of custody happens, and the mother/stepfather have a household income of $400k/yr, yet aren't made to pay child support, nor any portion of college over the next 5 years til age 19. That was tested in court and upheld.

Re: Child Custody Lawyer [Re: M48scout] #1769641
06/24/16 05:58 PM
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Originally Posted By: M48scout
Originally Posted By: Deerslyer86

Originally Posted By: jbc
Originally Posted By: Deerslyer86

Originally Posted By: TexasHuntress
Oh, good grief!

If the guy making $10/hour paying child support for one child with an ex-wife who does not work is going to pay the same percent of his income as the guy making $40/hour paying child support for one child with an ex-wife who does not work.

Why is that unfair?

And, no, I do not receive child support. I married a man who has paid child support, though, and never fussed about it because it was the right thing to do (even though we felt like it was, many times, misappropriated).
it's very unfair. Like I said their should be cap on CS. My kid is no better nor does his raising cost more than the man child who's father makes $10 an hour. If a woman is gonna bitch about how CS isn't enough then she should let the father raise him and I'm sure the man won't ask for a dime.


Surely you don't think tiger woods (for example) should owe the same as a $10/hr guy? Do you?
yes I do when it comes to CS. Why should he have to pay more than the man making $10 an hour


Dude what are you talking about. I don't doubt the courts are biased toward women. But i think the idea is to "make the kids whole best as possible". Rich people spend more on their kids. Poor people spend less. The idea is to keep the money the kids are receiving the same amount of money had their parents not divorced. So, if you and the missus did not get divorced, presumably you would have steadily increased the amount you spent on your kids through the years as your income increased. Thus, the courts are trying to replicate this increased benefit to the kids as you steadily improve your lot in life.


Exactly.

Re: Child Custody Lawyer [Re: M48scout] #1769688
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Originally Posted By: M48scout
Originally Posted By: Deerslyer86

Originally Posted By: jbc
Originally Posted By: Deerslyer86

Originally Posted By: TexasHuntress
Oh, good grief!

If the guy making $10/hour paying child support for one child with an ex-wife who does not work is going to pay the same percent of his income as the guy making $40/hour paying child support for one child with an ex-wife who does not work.

Why is that unfair?

And, no, I do not receive child support. I married a man who has paid child support, though, and never fussed about it because it was the right thing to do (even though we felt like it was, many times, misappropriated).
it's very unfair. Like I said their should be cap on CS. My kid is no better nor does his raising cost more than the man child who's father makes $10 an hour. If a woman is gonna bitch about how CS isn't enough then she should let the father raise him and I'm sure the man won't ask for a dime.


Surely you don't think tiger woods (for example) should owe the same as a $10/hr guy? Do you?
yes I do when it comes to CS. Why should he have to pay more than the man making $10 an hour


Dude what are you talking about. I don't doubt the courts are biased toward women. But i think the idea is to "make the kids whole best as possible". Rich people spend more on their kids. Poor people spend less. The idea is to keep the money the kids are receiving the same amount of money had their parents not divorced. So, if you and the missus did not get divorced, presumably you would have steadily increased the amount you spent on your kids through the years as your income increased. Thus, the courts are trying to replicate this increased benefit to the kids as you steadily improve your lot in life. See when it comes to the rich don't think for once that the ex wife doesn't have just as much if not more than the ex husband bc in their divorce you can bet she took half of what they had. So why should the man pay more than a father who makes $10 an hour when the mother can already buy whatever she wants bc she's rich


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Re: Child Custody Lawyer [Re: Deerslyer86] #1769783
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When I work, I'm not doing it just for me. When I better my position financially, I'm not doing it just for me, I'm doing it for my children as well. If you are making $40.00 an hour and expecting your children to be raised on a $10.00 an hour budget, you are nothing more than a selfish bastard.


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Re: Child Custody Lawyer [Re: Deerslyer86] #1770388
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How much are you paying now?


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Re: Child Custody Lawyer [Re: Deerslyer86] #1770810
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What really sucks is when you're ex gets paid cash and you know she makes more than you. I still have to pay as her making "minimum wage" because that's all she records!

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