Our 12 year old grand daughter has a very open relationship with her mother. You would be amazed at some of the things she says happens at school, sex/oral sex in the bathrooms and any other place you can imagine. Ya'll better stock up on the chastity belts when they are 10 is all I can say. You are fooling yourselves if you think just because they are staying home on Friday and Saturday nights that all is just as you want.