Originally Posted By: goodman_hunter
I got some questions for the one's that feel like gays were not born that way. At what age did you decide, that even though your attracted to men, God said that wrong so its only gonna be women for you, from here on out. How many times is your conviction tested each day. I mean when you go to the beach with your family. And you see all those guys running around without theire shirts, do you have to tell yourself " Be strong, Be strong, its an abomination". Have you ever got drunk and made a bad decision. I aint picking I'm just trying to figure out why yawl feel that way. I understand that everything ultimately come down to a decision.


Honestly, I've talked to quite a few former gay or lesbian person's. We have a lady in our church and have had speakers before and we have had some experience dealing with people suffering from same sex attraction.

So far every one I've spoken to has has some childhood trauma that greatly effected them and caused a same sex attraction.It wasn't like they had a normal and wonderful childhood but were just attracted to the same sex. Some may be, but none that have had the courage to share their story with me.