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Re: when is enough, enough?
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10/23/14 02:14 AM
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You have to get it under control now before they get older. They'll appreciate it later in life.
Two roads diverged in the woods and I took the one with deep ruts,hills and mud.It may be bumpy but WHAT A RIDE!
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Re: when is enough, enough?
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10/23/14 02:26 AM
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Posts: 5,103 McCalla, Alabama
MarkBAMA
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Is your wife present when you are the one disciplining the kids? The reason I say this is that if they think Mom is a pushover when you are not around you need to put a stop to that. They do not need to see it as what you do and what she does, but what both of you will do if something is not done correctly. The longer you let that happen the worse it is going to get.
ROLL TIDE !!!
Enough Said....
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Re: when is enough, enough?
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10/23/14 02:36 AM
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Posts: 26,562 Fayetteville TN Via Selma
jawbone
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I have no advice to offer but I did send a prayer up for you. I think you are doing the most important part of the parenting role and that is trying. Those children will recognize that and truly love you for it one day. Just stay the course with them because you haven't even gotten to the tween years when hormones start kicking in. God bless you for being the man their father isn't.
Lord, please help us get our nation straightened out.
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Re: when is enough, enough?
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10/23/14 02:38 AM
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YEKRUT
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Your wife is gonna have to whip some ass. End of story. Do not take parenting advice from holywud either.
Some men are mere hunters; others are turkey hunters. —Archibald Rutledge—
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Re: when is enough, enough?
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10/23/14 02:56 AM
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oakachoy
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I have no advice to offer but I did send a prayer up for you. I think you are doing the most important part of the parenting role and that is trying. Those children will recognize that and truly love you for it one day. Just stay the course with them because you haven't even gotten to the tween years when hormones start kicking in. God bless you for being the man their father isn't. Well said, have patience and stay the course. it wont fall in place overnight. Backup mom's authority.
WM Hunter "Trump literally sacrificed himself, his family and all of his businesses for this country. He literally is a true American hero. And True American Patriot - warts and all."
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Re: when is enough, enough?
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10/23/14 04:06 AM
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eskimo270
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That was the reason I asked. As long as their Dad is still around you are the step Dad and they know it. Especially the older girl. It will be a tough road for you if your wife doesn't stand up and firmly support you. That was court ordered, my wife can't stand him, she is just doing it for the kids and I've come to accept I will always be #2 in their eyes, it's a hard pill to swallow but I have to be the bigger man, I love them kids and would do anything for them, if they grow up to hate me because of BS there dad's Fed them it will hurt but what can I do, that's the type of person he is.. I could go on and on.. I keep a roof over there heads, food on the table..every thing that pertains to raising kids is on me, and I want to do that, he won't but a 70.00 epidemic pen because he says he already has to pay there insurance.. yeah, I need to take him hunting back in a swamp you stepped into the same situation my step dad did 30 something years ago, I won't ever forget the 1st lesson he taught me, I used to tell mom that I would go live with dad if I didn't get my way, the first time I tried this after their marriage he said" you want me to go call him?". That stopped that. So if you are patient, firm, consistent, and loving,it may take time but you will get through to them. He and my mom are no longer married but when I think of a dad he is the one that come to mind.
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Re: when is enough, enough?
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10/23/14 04:42 AM
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mmusso
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I know exactly where you're at. I'm moving into a place with 4 boys that don't share my last name this weekend. Prayers sent for you...
"No, I'm not a good shot, but I shoot often." - Teddy Roosevelt
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Re: when is enough, enough?
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10/23/14 05:36 AM
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Posts: 8,076 north Alabama
biglmbass
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Your wife is gonna have to whip some ass. End of story. Exactly. As long as she's a pushover, whether she realizes it or not, she's setting you up to be the asshole step dad enforcer. She can still have a soft heart and be a firm disciplinarian.
The left lane is for the the purpose of moving the flow of traffic forward regardless of the speed limit. If your impeding the flow of traffic get your ass in the right lane. It's really that simple...
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Re: when is enough, enough?
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10/23/14 06:18 AM
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Posts: 15,547 Panhandle Florida
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Why are there pics of Hollywoods kids posted?
A servant of God and of the Lord Jesus Christ.
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Re: when is enough, enough?
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10/23/14 06:53 AM
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Why are there pics of Hollywoods kids posted? He puts them in a shirt together for some reason, can't remember... to make them get along I think
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Re: when is enough, enough?
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10/23/14 03:08 PM
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What KY buck said. You don't need to go anywhere. Call me if you need to.
Really?
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