Alabama has one of the highest divorce rates in the country. Yeah, gay marraige dilutes marraige, but so does porn and the women and men who have been married 3 or four times. It's not homos ruining everyone's life. It's a bad influence on kids for sure. When you're exposed to it constantly through the media, you begin to think its acceptable. Being a good parent is just going to be harder. You can bitch and whine about it or find ideas about how you're going to explain your point of view and values better than your child's peers, TV shows, and the Internet.