You need to sit down and have a discussion and get everyone on the same page. I would have no problem with a member bringing a guest(s), but the member would have to be there with his guest at all times and it would count as one of your bucks. To me if you are sitting in separate stands a guest is a guest whether it's a son, wife, or friend. I've seen some club leaders bend the rules here and say that they and there 5 kids can hunt all the time but that you can only bring one "guest". The bottom line is you just need to have a pleasant meeting in which y'all discuss rules/things and have the same rules consistently applied across the board. If that doesn't work just give TatSoul a key to the gate and let him start stacking them up in the floor board of his CanAm.