It's not about judging but about personal preference and beliefs.
What one does is their business. Doesn't mean I agree with it though.
One of my relatives kids married a black guy and they asked me what
I thought about it. I told them what I thought, but that it also didn't really
matter what I thought, they were going to do it anyway.
So now I'm a "racist",,,whatever.
Last time I checked, this is still the U.S. where I can have my own beliefs.
A lot of this is reminiscent of the LGBTQ stuff, as in I should accept it or
else I'm a Bigot/racist. Sound familiar?