You're talking culture, not race. I wouldn't want my daughter dating a hip hop , thug but if wouldn't feel any better with her dating a white trash kid from a meth head family.

I already said Id prefer she date within her race because it'll be easier on her and her future children but I am more concerned with character than color. If given a choice between a quality, Christ filled , young man who is black and a low life, trash white kid , I'll take the high character black kid every time. Now, I doubt I am ever faced with that dilemma because my daughter hasn't shown interest in anything but white guys but when she gets dating age we will cross that bridge if we come to it. I haven't ever discussed race with her because I've seen the results of daddy's who made a big deal out of it and were overbearing. Many times they got the exact opposite of what they wanted when their daughters decided to rebel and do the thing they knew would sting the most. My daughter figured out the culture thing without me ever having to point it out because we have always focused on character , faith and respect and she knows how she wants to be treated.