Originally Posted by biglmbass
Originally Posted by leroycnbucks
Some say trust but verify. Myself, I like to verify first well before any trust happens.

In todays world, I would not trust any stranger. Especially one dressed like her and how distant she was acting. If she has good intentions than she should have approached an usher and told them so..


Not trying to start an arguement, but I'd not at all expect a woman dressed as she was to approach an usher or anyone else & initiate conversation. I hope her intentions were pure, but she's dressed differently than everyone in the church, she likely knows no one there, her skin color is different than all others there (likely), so to think she'll be open & talkative to anyone, especially a male usher, just doesn't jive.



Because of what I said at the end of my post. The radicals in every religion, faith or believe make it more difficult to be welcomed with open arms.

When my wife and I were visiting new churches several years ago, if I didn't know someone there, the first thing I would do is introduce myself to an usher at the front door and tell them we are visiting. Just because you look like everyone there doesn't make you one of them.

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