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Re: Lesbians = Help me understand
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seems to always have been a push to say they were born that way, and that we have to love them no matter what. Iam gonna be the bad guy here and say that there aint no gay chromozone, and if you follow the bible then you would believe that it is an abomination against God, and goes on to say that you should not even eat dinner at the same table. but then again iam part of the minority that hasn't bought into the worlds messeage. And if one of my kids turns out to be gay then I can not be around them. There's a few left that still see it as the ultimate defiling of Gods image. Would Jesus preach to a queer or lesbian? Or would he turn his back to them?
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Re: Lesbians = Help me understand
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06/25/23 02:41 PM
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seems to always have been a push to say they were born that way, and that we have to love them no matter what. Iam gonna be the bad guy here and say that there aint no gay chromozone, and if you follow the bible then you would believe that it is an abomination against God, and goes on to say that you should not even eat dinner at the same table. but then again iam part of the minority that hasn't bought into the worlds messeage. And if one of my kids turns out to be gay then I can not be around them. There's a few left that still see it as the ultimate defiling of Gods image. Would Jesus preach to a queer or lesbian? Or would he turn his back to them? He would preach to them, of course, and tell them to "sin no more". Now, my question to you is this: If they said "no thanks Jesus, i am who i am", what would Jesus do then? That seems to be where we are with most of them.
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Re: Lesbians = Help me understand
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06/25/23 02:52 PM
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Humans have a strong psychological need to “fit in”……..Most of these folks are different than the norm from the get go and find themselves as outcasts in school early on in life. In order to satisfy that desire to fit in they are drawn to and seek refuge in these alternative lifestyles. They form their identity around that before “sex” is even in the picture. When they get older they need their choices to be validated by others so they can feel normal. In a nutshell its mostly just a matter of children being brainwashed.
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Re: Lesbians = Help me understand
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Girl at work is a lesbian and she and the partner fight all the damn time. spousal abuse (& suicide) are 3x or higher among gays than hetero’s ... when same sex marriages started becoming legal, my joke was i was gonna go back & get my law degree & setup a practice that only catered to gays - i would retire in about a year
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Re: Lesbians = Help me understand
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06/25/23 03:38 PM
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Girl at work is a lesbian and she and the partner fight all the damn time. spousal abuse (& suicide) are 3x or higher among gays than hetero’s ... when same sex marriages started becoming legal, my joke was i was gonna go back & get my law degree & setup a practice that only catered to gays - i would retire in about a year Dont hear much about that, huh? Same with all the mental issues wit the trannys. They dont seem to want to talk about that part and if it is talked about, its all my fault.
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Re: Lesbians = Help me understand
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06/25/23 03:41 PM
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Dont hear much about that, huh? Same with all the mental issues wit the trannys. They dont seem to want to talk about that part and if it is talked about, its all my fault.
Truth be told we probably all do bear a little responsibility for what has occurred….or many of us do…….Every boy is not going to be masculine and every girl is not going to be feminine but instead of making it ok for them to be different than the norm, what did we do to them in school?.....We made fun of them and called them faggots and dikes and forced them to seek these other groups where they could fit in. We told them that’s what they were and labeled them starting in 5th or 6th grade probably…..maybe even before then. Now were at a stage of it where these people are adults looking for validation from society and so they are the ones telling kids that its ok to be like them and presenting them with the allure of that place where they can fit in. They leave out all the parts about how unfilled and miserable they are and that’s why they’re really there to brainwash them…..Its completely a self serving endeavor to try and make themselves feel better about the path they took in life.
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Re: Lesbians = Help me understand
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06/25/23 05:47 PM
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Cnc, i dont reckon i bullied anybody in school, that i can remember. I never cared for bullies. I usually took up for the kids getting bullied and wound up in the office over it. But yeah, there was alot of bullying going on. One kid in a class i was teachers aide for got bullied so much, he killed himself that summer. I was in quite a few fights over that fella. Takes all kinds of folks to make a world i guess. I think this is also why really smart people like Steve Jobs go down that path......They're different than everybody else and dont fit in to the norm. It seems like a lot of them are artistically inclined or they have engineering type minds.....and they just arent the prototypical masculine male.
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Re: Lesbians = Help me understand
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06/25/23 06:16 PM
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Would Jesus preach to a queer or lesbian? Or would he turn his back to them? Iam sure anyone's free to try to change them. But when you disobey the word and have them over for dinner, who's doing the changing, them or you. my thinking was perfectly normal in the 70's thru 90's, it's everyone else that's changed. second part of your question, I remember Jesus telling satan to "get behind me" in other words yes it's okay to turn your back on sin.
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Re: Lesbians = Help me understand
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06/25/23 06:59 PM
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I believe most clinical analysis shows that the majority(around 75%) of lesbians display traits of BPD(borderline personality disorder). My ex worked her entire career within the social work/mental health fields and those are full of gays and lesbians as both providers and clients. Most gay men seem to just naturally have a little extra X on their Y chromosomes which is to say they were just born that way. Most lesbians, though, seem to have some early developmental trauma that led to BPD or similar. They are nuts. And they’re women so they aren’t as likely to be rational already. Multiply that times two in a lesbian relationship and you are bound to have regular cat fights. Practically all of the lesbians I know, which is probably about 20, are in therapy. But they prefer to get therapy from OTHER LESBIANS(licensed yes but still just as nucking futz as their clients.) The spiritual diagnosis for borderline is jezebel spirit. I have run into multiple hetero women with BPD, and their underlying issue is not attaching to a nurturing parent early after childbirth. Then they grow up feeling like they are going to be abandoned. So they test who they are with. Eventually the constant testing leads to what they fear the most, because they literally drive the person away with the testing. Marrying a woman with BPD in my exacerbates the issues, which seems counter intuitive, but that's been my experience. Typically what you see is they go postal over some small minor issue , and nothing seems to calm the waters. Sometimes they leave. What they want is for you to cause after them, however that only makes the testing worse. Usually they will come around and seek you out again, and they will act like nothing happened. They will not see your side of what happened either. Sometimes it's hard to tell from narcissistic behavior. And expect to be heavily gaslighted. My resting heart rate when married to mine was 115 bpm. That's how much stress I was under. You couldn't go on a vacation without it blowing up. Holidays, forget it.
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Re: Lesbians = Help me understand
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06/25/23 07:47 PM
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It is all a HUGE discussion that’s for sure! It can be looked at from a hundred different perspectives! Therefore I just chose to follow God’s word. God’s word says we were made in his image and every life is critically important to him! To the point that he let his own son die a horrific death for us on the cross! Homosexuality is just a sin. However it is still a sin! I sin. You sin. We all sin. We have all earned Gods wrath and deserve to be punished for our sins.
So WWJD? He would love the homosexuals and tell him he came to save them from their sins! Just like he does for the rest of us!
Kicker is what would they do? Scary part is the more the world tells them that it is ok to live in their sun and to be proud of their sin….they are being decieved!
Just remember one thing, the sun of homosexuality is no different than any other sin out there. It is all the same in God’s eyes. Watch out for the wood plank!
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Re: Lesbians = Help me understand
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06/25/23 08:11 PM
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Would Jesus preach to a queer or lesbian? Or would he turn his back to them? Iam sure anyone's free to try to change them. But when you disobey the word and have them over for dinner, who's doing the changing, them or you. my thinking was perfectly normal in the 70's thru 90's, it's everyone else that's changed. second part of your question, I remember Jesus telling satan to "get behind me" in other words yes it's okay to turn your back on sin. I asked that question to challenge your response. I struggle with this as some family are rainbow people. They hate me when I respond with “Bible thumping” responses. I DO NOT have them for dinner nor do I associate myself with them in any way. I just let them know what I think the Bible tells me is wrong with their beliefs. I usually don’t have to turn my back on them bc they leave before I get done speaking. Sorry if it felt like I was throwing stones at you
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Re: Lesbians = Help me understand
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06/25/23 08:38 PM
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Would Jesus preach to a queer or lesbian? Or would he turn his back to them? Iam sure anyone's free to try to change them. But when you disobey the word and have them over for dinner, who's doing the changing, them or you. my thinking was perfectly normal in the 70's thru 90's, it's everyone else that's changed. second part of your question, I remember Jesus telling satan to "get behind me" in other words yes it's okay to turn your back on sin. I asked that question to challenge your response. I struggle with this as some family are rainbow people. They hate me when I respond with “Bible thumping” responses. I DO NOT have them for dinner nor do I associate myself with them in any way. I just let them know what I think the Bible tells me is wrong with their beliefs. I usually don’t have to turn my back on them bc they leave before I get done speaking. Sorry if it felt like I was throwing stones at you I think theres alot of us in the same boat. I just think that we are past the point of changing them. At this point we are just trying to survive ourselves in this world and us not be softened to it.
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Re: Lesbians = Help me understand
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06/25/23 09:24 PM
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seems to always have been a push to say they were born that way, and that we have to love them no matter what. Iam gonna be the bad guy here and say that there aint no gay chromozone, and if you follow the bible then you would believe that it is an abomination against God, and goes on to say that you should not even eat dinner at the same table. but then again iam part of the minority that hasn't bought into the worlds messeage. And if one of my kids turns out to be gay then I can not be around them. There's a few left that still see it as the ultimate defiling of Gods image. Ummm...Yes. God doesn't make mistakes.You have nailed it here sir.
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Re: Lesbians = Help me understand
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06/25/23 11:30 PM
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I think I’m lesbian…..I’ve got 3 dollar bills in my family and love them because what they did for my mother on her deathbed but I’m tired of this chit being shoved down our throats. Not by them but by big media. F’kem all.
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