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Divorce
#4246010
12/14/24 01:44 PM
12/14/24 01:44 PM
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Joined: Jan 2008
Posts: 581
Lake View
tombo51
OP
4 point
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OP
4 point
Joined: Jan 2008
Posts: 581
Lake View
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Sucks that’s pretty much it, don’t see how one person can hurt other people in their family so much for no reason other than their just not happy, and can’t give a good explanation of why their not happy, I’m leaning on god for strength and understanding prayers for me and my daughter
All men die few ever really live
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Re: Divorce
[Re: tombo51]
#4246013
12/14/24 01:47 PM
12/14/24 01:47 PM
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Joined: Jul 2003
Posts: 13,661
In a Van, down by the River
quailman
Booner
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Booner
Joined: Jul 2003
Posts: 13,661
In a Van, down by the River
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I'm a two time loser. And yes, they suck.
Life is a journey. Make sure and bring plenty of Beer.
My luck has been so bad lately, it could be raining pussies and I'd catch one with a dick broke off in it.
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Re: Divorce
[Re: tombo51]
#4246023
12/14/24 02:03 PM
12/14/24 02:03 PM
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Joined: Nov 2015
Posts: 14,515
Chilton County
MarksOutdoors
Booner
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Booner
Joined: Nov 2015
Posts: 14,515
Chilton County
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Really hate it for you. Went through one about 25 years ago.
"The true soldier fights not because he hates what is in front of him, but because he loves what is behind him."
-G. K. Chesterton
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Re: Divorce
[Re: tombo51]
#4246041
12/14/24 02:42 PM
12/14/24 02:42 PM
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Joined: Jun 2012
Posts: 24,888
Awbarn, AL
CNC
Dances With Weeds
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Dances With Weeds
Joined: Jun 2012
Posts: 24,888
Awbarn, AL
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I dont think women need a reason to be mad.....I think somedays just waking up is enough.
We dont rent pigs
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Re: Divorce
[Re: CNC]
#4246043
12/14/24 02:51 PM
12/14/24 02:51 PM
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Joined: Apr 2010
Posts: 3,283
leeds,al
geeb1
10 point
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10 point
Joined: Apr 2010
Posts: 3,283
leeds,al
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I dont think women need a reason to be mad.....I think somedays just waking up is enough. This.
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Re: Divorce
[Re: Gunpowder]
#4246045
12/14/24 02:52 PM
12/14/24 02:52 PM
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Joined: Dec 2015
Posts: 25,074
blount county alabama
jwalker77
Pumpkin - The Thermal Expert
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Pumpkin - The Thermal Expert
Joined: Dec 2015
Posts: 25,074
blount county alabama
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Not that you need to hear this, but if they can't or want give you an explanation, more times than not there is a third party involvement somewhere. Prayers to you. Yeah, " just not happy" at home almost always means "i think i would be happier over there". Which is a lie of the devil. Marriage takes work, for better or worse. And commitment for a lifetime. Im afraid alot of people just forget exactly what it was they signed up for, or they never really thought hard about it to begin with. A marriage is a covenant before God between two people, a man ansd a woman, that joins them together as "one flesh". Thats pretty serious business. Ill spend the rest of my life working on and for my marriage. Thats the deal i made.
Last edited by jwalker77; 12/14/24 02:54 PM.
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Re: Divorce
[Re: jwalker77]
#4246047
12/14/24 02:57 PM
12/14/24 02:57 PM
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Joined: Aug 2006
Posts: 5,401
Heart of Dixie
Narrow Gap
12 point
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12 point
Joined: Aug 2006
Posts: 5,401
Heart of Dixie
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Not that you need to hear this, but if they can't or want give you an explanation, more times than not there is a third party involvement somewhere. Prayers to you. Yeah, " just not happy" at home almost always means "i think i would be happier over there". Which is a lie of the devil. Marriage takes work, for better or worse. And commitment for a lifetime. Im afraid alot of people just forget exactly what it was they signed up for, or they never really thought hard about it to begin with. A marriage is a covenant before God between two people, a man ansd a woman, that joins them together as "one flesh". Thats pretty serious business. Ill spend the rest of my life working on and for my marriage. Thats the deal i made. Great post 👆👍🏻
Duty, Honor, Country
Robert E. Lee
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Re: Divorce
[Re: jwalker77]
#4246054
12/14/24 03:13 PM
12/14/24 03:13 PM
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Joined: Jul 2020
Posts: 765
Wilcox County
hamma
4 point
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4 point
Joined: Jul 2020
Posts: 765
Wilcox County
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Not that you need to hear this, but if they can't or want give you an explanation, more times than not there is a third party involvement somewhere. Prayers to you. Yeah, " just not happy" at home almost always means "i think i would be happier over there". Which is a lie of the devil. Marriage takes work, for better or worse. And commitment for a lifetime. Im afraid alot of people just forget exactly what it was they signed up for, or they never really thought hard about it to begin with. A marriage is a covenant before God between two people, a man ansd a woman, that joins them together as "one flesh". Thats pretty serious business. Ill spend the rest of my life working on and for my marriage. Thats the deal i made. AMEN & Prayers sent tombo
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Re: Divorce
[Re: jwalker77]
#4246064
12/14/24 03:22 PM
12/14/24 03:22 PM
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Joined: Jan 2008
Posts: 581
Lake View
tombo51
OP
4 point
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OP
4 point
Joined: Jan 2008
Posts: 581
Lake View
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Not that you need to hear this, but if they can't or want give you an explanation, more times than not there is a third party involvement somewhere. Prayers to you. Yeah, " just not happy" at home almost always means "i think i would be happier over there". Which is a lie of the devil. Marriage takes work, for better or worse. And commitment for a lifetime. Im afraid alot of people just forget exactly what it was they signed up for, or they never really thought hard about it to begin with. A marriage is a covenant before God between two people, a man ansd a woman, that joins them together as "one flesh". Thats pretty serious business. Ill spend the rest of my life working on and for my marriage. Thats the deal i made. Yes there is third party involvement that i found out a few weeks ago says that it just happened right before I found out, and tries to validate it because have have been separated for 7 months but i was hanging on to any hope i had apparently she had other plans, and yes i do take marriage seriously with god I promise I’m not perfect but tried everything I knew to do, I know he’s got a plan for me but it’s a hurt I’ve never felt before right now
All men die few ever really live
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Re: Divorce
[Re: tombo51]
#4246068
12/14/24 03:32 PM
12/14/24 03:32 PM
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Posts: 8,383
north Alabama
biglmbass
14 point
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14 point
Joined: Nov 2003
Posts: 8,383
north Alabama
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Keep your chin up, many of us have been through the same/similar. Keep on keeping on & put your child first.
Painting w’ a broad brush, but if/when there is another suitor involved, there ain’t no changing a woman’s mind. They just gotta find out the hard way the grass ain’t always greener on the other side.
The left lane is for the the purpose of moving the flow of traffic forward regardless of the speed limit. If your impeding the flow of traffic get your ass in the right lane. It's really that simple...
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Re: Divorce
[Re: jwalker77]
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12/14/24 03:42 PM
12/14/24 03:42 PM
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Posts: 141
Pensacola, FL/Evergreen, AL
rhino21
3 point
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3 point
Joined: Jan 2014
Posts: 141
Pensacola, FL/Evergreen, AL
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Not that you need to hear this, but if they can't or want give you an explanation, more times than not there is a third party involvement somewhere. Prayers to you. Yeah, " just not happy" at home almost always means "i think i would be happier over there". Which is a lie of the devil. Marriage takes work, for better or worse. And commitment for a lifetime. Im afraid alot of people just forget exactly what it was they signed up for, or they never really thought hard about it to begin with. A marriage is a covenant before God between two people, a man ansd a woman, that joins them together as "one flesh". Thats pretty serious business. Ill spend the rest of my life working on and for my marriage. Thats the deal i made. Man speaks the truth!
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Re: Divorce
[Re: Narrow Gap]
#4246077
12/14/24 04:07 PM
12/14/24 04:07 PM
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Joined: Jun 2013
Posts: 55,219
Gee's Bend/At The Hog Pen
James
Freak of Nature
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Freak of Nature
Joined: Jun 2013
Posts: 55,219
Gee's Bend/At The Hog Pen
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Not that you need to hear this, but if they can't or want give you an explanation, more times than not there is a third party involvement somewhere. Prayers to you. Yeah, " just not happy" at home almost always means "i think i would be happier over there". Which is a lie of the devil. Marriage takes work, for better or worse. And commitment for a lifetime. Im afraid alot of people just forget exactly what it was they signed up for, or they never really thought hard about it to begin with. A marriage is a covenant before God between two people, a man ansd a woman, that joins them together as "one flesh". Thats pretty serious business. Ill spend the rest of my life working on and for my marriage. Thats the deal i made. Great post 👆👍🏻 Maybe. But I've had/have an awesome Stepdad since i was one year old (43 now) sorry but folks can throw Bible quotes at it all day long, but a Toxic Marriage or Relationship is NOT good for the kids...
Do not regret growing older, it's a privilege denied to many!
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Re: Divorce
[Re: tombo51]
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12/14/24 04:23 PM
12/14/24 04:23 PM
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Posts: 15,743
ArmPit of the south
DeerNutz0U812_
Old Mossy Horns
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Old Mossy Horns
Joined: Sep 2012
Posts: 15,743
ArmPit of the south
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Women's biggest problem is thinking that we (Us men) are put on this earth to make them happy....I cant make you happy woman....  All I can do is support and care for you,Thats it!....She's got to find happiness within...Get involved in the community, or church, Find a friend, find a hobby, go shop, go wine tasting, Hell, go tell her to go shop with her new friend to the winery to find stuff for her new hobby....   I hate what your going thru Tombo that sux....
Did you know that Beer Nutz are over a Dollar...and Deer Nutz are under a Buck...
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Re: Divorce
[Re: CNC]
#4246094
12/14/24 04:49 PM
12/14/24 04:49 PM
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Joined: Apr 2013
Posts: 2,243
Mobile, AL
Mdees
8 point
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8 point
Joined: Apr 2013
Posts: 2,243
Mobile, AL
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I dont think women need a reason to be mad.....I think somedays just waking up is enough. Many of them aren’t even mad. They just don’t feel fulfilled BUT they are also partially busted, empty vessels. You can’t make them happy and they can’t really be happy. Hate to hear you are going through this. It’s worse when children are involved. I got divorced from a woman I’d been with for 20 years. Keep your head up, on straight, and make sure to take care of yourself and your daughter.
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Re: Divorce
[Re: Mdees]
#4246099
12/14/24 04:55 PM
12/14/24 04:55 PM
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Joined: Jan 2008
Posts: 581
Lake View
tombo51
OP
4 point
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OP
4 point
Joined: Jan 2008
Posts: 581
Lake View
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I dont think women need a reason to be mad.....I think somedays just waking up is enough. Many of them aren’t even mad. They just don’t feel fulfilled BUT they are also partially busted, empty vessels. You can’t make them happy and they can’t really be happy. Hate to hear you are going through this. It’s worse when children are involved. I got divorced from a woman I’d been with for 20 years. Keep your head up, on straight, and make sure to take care of yourself and your daughter. Yea we’ve been together 20 married for 17 years
All men die few ever really live
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Re: Divorce
[Re: tombo51]
#4246107
12/14/24 05:04 PM
12/14/24 05:04 PM
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Posts: 13,304
Earth
TDog93
Booner
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Booner
Joined: Jun 2020
Posts: 13,304
Earth
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Keep praying and try to hav lov in your heart - do the best u can and what right for u and kid with lov n heart and lov her while she there
I am in it for the long haul - never plan to get a divorce and marriage aint easy - but if something ever happened - i would be 1 and done. Was an old bachelor once - life was very simple and easy single
Will say some prayers for you
Hunt the wind - leave it better than you found it - love your neighbor as you love your self
We need prayer for our country now more than ever
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Re: Divorce
[Re: tombo51]
#4246135
12/14/24 06:09 PM
12/14/24 06:09 PM
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Posts: 3,966
Huntsville, Al
Bronco 74
10 point
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10 point
Joined: Feb 2009
Posts: 3,966
Huntsville, Al
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My advice. Been down this road. My first wife’s mom was on husband # 4 when we married. That was flags everywhere I missed. Ex wife is on husband # 4 according to to our daughter. On marriage # 2 now for 12 years. Happy as a kid on Christmas Day.
"We have an opponent in this state that we work every day, 365 days a year, to dominate."
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