Tombo, If you love the gal, keep praying & never give up. I've Been very close to divorce on more than 1 occasion. I'm living proof that if the good Lord can fix our marriage, he can fix anyone's. Our 27 yr marriage has been just about as broken as it gets. Very Blessed & thankful to say things are now as good as they've ever been (not perfect). I understand some things just cant be forgiven but It CAN be repaired if you keep it in his Hands.. In the meantime, Keep yourself busy