Sounds like the OP’s friend dropped the ball when it came to being the father that girl needed. Too late to worry about it once the mudshark has a mudpuppy to raise. I’d say he’s at least14-15yrs behind schedule.

I don’t think you’re wrong. Some don’t give a crap about anyone but themselves. Some work so many hours trying to pay for crap that they aren’t able to have a good relationship with their kids. Either way, the kids suffer, and a lot of them tend to make bad choices. The world isn’t slowing down any time soon it doesn’t seem. What the answer is to fix all that, I don’t know. I sure wish I did though.

Pi

nsfw

There used to be a group that would go whip up on deadbeat dads of all colors. Got infiltrated

little ole gal probably aint got much of a life ahead of her now . she can turn it around but itll be hard on her . her not knowing the daddy tells me she'll be passed around and end up with a couple more and never married . if she does marry he'll probably be worthless or she'll never stay in a marriage.


she might as well go ahead and get on the government tit and settle with having nothing .

Absolutely nothing wrong with kids today it’s the parents raising them. They’re still perfect when they enter this world like they always have been. Social media and poor parenting.

Children are savages when brought into this world. Left without guidance they grow into adult savages. It's our job to teach them. We've largely failed as a society.

100 percent fact.

Parents first and then society itself are to blame. The pressures to be popular is how. Kids today have bigger hurdles to overcome because of technology.

As far as her knowing who the father is that’s highly possible. She could’ve been with several guys during that time. Like that gal that took on over 1000 guys in one day, she’s kinda weirdly interesting right now. I keep seeing her interviews but have yet to watch. There are kids today that are something like hat as an accomplishment.

A few years back a high school gal took on a football team in the school bus on the way back from a game. I think she was a 9th grader.
Several other instances have been on the news around here. The news doesn’t always report similar instances depending.

correction...humanism. man is his own god

Well she should be at least able to narrow it down

What a terrible father. A father/child relationship is supposed to give the child a good example of the relationship with our Heavenly Father. I’m so thankful that my sin doesn’t cause my Father to abandon me. You should love and be there for your children because of who they are, not what they do. I made a lot of mistakes as a father but jeez.

sounds very calvinistic..Isaiah 7:16. for before the child shall know to refuse the evil and choose the good.

children are born innocent

I know a guy yrs ago that wouldn’t work and support his family . Layed up drunk . He was white . When a certain group came to his house for a visit he got his ass to work . They didn’t burn a flag but that was next .

That little gal will have a hard time finding a decent dude to marry. I can't believe all the bastard kids being born today, got several dudes at work with kids and girlfriends but unmarried. Good luck to em they're gonna need it.

Yes sir.

When I lived in Dallas area, Russ Martin was a popular radio host for the afternoon period. His advice to young people was, "If it goes down the throat, there ain't no child support".

It's sad. There's no excuse for not being a father to our kids. This is true across all of society. From the rich to the poor. I know everyone loves what Elon is doing for our country, including me. But he's an awful example of a father and a husband.