So none of you guys ever snuck into your gf's house?
No.
One young woman I dated, I couldn't tell if her mother had a CCW weapon. She was divorced and, while I don't believe she did, I wasn't stupid enough to sneak around someone's home at 2 a.m.
Another one I dated, I know her father carried. He was an ornery sumbitch and I suspect would have shot me at 2 a.m. like any father would have if he thought a stranger was in his home who did not follow a command to freeze, cease, identify, etc.
Based on the original post and information, for all this father knew it was a criminal with a gun to his daughter's body under the covers and once he moved, he could have been coming out to shoot. WTH knows what was going on?
But at 2:30 a.m. if you're holding on a
stranger IN YOUR HOME who your daughter/family member has said they don't know him and he disobeys a command and makes a move, lead's going to fly.